Selfish ego is impatient.
Selfish ego is mean.
Selfish ego does not find pleasure in other people's fortune.
Selfish ego does not humble themselves, and is full of pride.
Selfish ego does not seek the good for others.
Selfish ego looses its temper.
Selfish ego tracks and remembers others mistakes.
Selfish ego isn't happy about holiness, but rejoices with evil.
Selfish ego is reckless, always suspicious, always defeated, and always gives up on others.
Selfish ego never pulls through.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13
As in your dream, you and your husband must fight against both real and spiritual demons with your strength of will, and faith in Me and My Word. I will give you the strength to shove and push all demons from your safe place which surrounds your family. In the few short days (years) to come, I will make your husband great so no one of evil may stand against him, for I will put My Word in his mouth. No one of evil can stand up to the Word of God, for it is indeed a razor-sharp, double- edged sword. (Persevere When Adversity Comes...Your Redemption Draws Nigh - Letters from God and His Christ - Volume 1)