Selfish ego is impatient.
Selfish ego is mean.
Selfish ego does not find pleasure in other people's fortune.
Selfish ego does not humble themselves, and is full of pride.
Selfish ego does not seek the good for others.
Selfish ego looses its temper.
Selfish ego tracks and remembers others mistakes.
Selfish ego isn't happy about holiness, but rejoices with evil.
Selfish ego is reckless, always suspicious, always defeated, and always gives up on others.
Selfish ego never pulls through.
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails.
1 Corinthians 13
So give directly to the poor, as your heart leads you, for in serving God shall no man profit by monetary means, but shall profit only by that which the Lord God gives. And the profit God gives is true, and in no wise is it of men or mammon. For the Lord delights in that which one gives to another, in My name, and by the works of their own hands and feet in all righteousness...this is the tithe in which the Lord delights most. If one comes to you, saying, ‘Give me a cup of water...give them a drink in My name. If one comes, saying, ‘I need a shirt, for I am naked and cold...give them your shirt and your coat also. And if this same one asks, ‘Will you walk with me this far?...go with them double. So tithe not just of your money, but of your possessions, of your body, of your strength, of your time, of your very life, and you shall receive ten-fold in Heaven and in the Kingdom to come. Do this, and you shall really know Me and the Father also, for I am of the Father. [Jesus speaking] (Receive the Lords Blessing - Letters from God and His Christ - Volume 6)