I don't know very many Christians raised in perfect Christian homes, who are raising perfect Christian children, while enjoying perfect prosperity as a result of the blessing being poured out on them, as the result of their perfect obedience to God. Matter of fact, I don't know any but I know plenty who feel they must appear as such. They believe their testimony of the perfected Christian life in them is paramount in bringing others to Christ. Little do they know that the Jesus they are presenting is as lifeless and of as much use as a plastic Jesus on the dashboard of their car.
Jesus ate and drank with sinners because He knows what real life for the common person is all about. He's there when your son or daughter tell you that they are gay or that you've a grandchild coming sooner than you expected. He's there when your wife has an affair and your kids rebel. He's there when you loose your job and your health abandons you too. Jesus is there walking and living through all of the problems that we sinners have because He came to save sinners. There is nothing perfectly plastic about Jesus, He is in the nitty gritty details of life. Those of us who belong to HIm don't need to plasticize ourselves to draw others to Him either. All we have to do is be honest, quit worrying about our testimony, and give testimony to the wonderful things Jesus does through all of the things that can and do go wrong. All we have to do is lift Him and all men will be drawn to Him. He does all of the work all we need to do is give Him the credit.
Trina, come now and confess all that you have done, and ask My forgiveness. Cast all that has become burdensome upon Me. I shall carry it for you. Oh beloved, open your heart to Me, and let Me fill it to overflowing with the Water of Life. Trina, My most precious one, you have done wrong, yes, as have all. Not one upon the earth has done right. Know this beyond question...you are forgiven, for your name was written in My book before the very foundation of the earth. ~ Jesus [Letters from God and His Christ - Volume 1 - The Seas Rage; The Earth, It Trembles...All is Quiet For Those Who Rest In the Lord]